Have you ever wondered how
people get to those higher-up positions in a company? They seem so confident
and sure of themselves but all they did was use a few strategy techniques to
get what they want in life. These few simple tricks that go unnoticed can help
in life, your relationships, and especially your career. In my experience,
attitude and how you handle or approach a situation is everything! There are
only a few things to keep in mind.
Be kind. Burning bridges never
gets you anywhere. And once it’s burned, good luck putting it back together.
Be different. Don’t be afraid to go
about a situation in an unorthodox manner. Why? Without stepping outside
appropriate behavior pertaining to language and politeness, find a way to
differentiate yourself. There are over seven billion people in the world today.
Imagine that you are competing with every single person … why should someone
choose you? Figure out why you are special, and don’t think you aren’t! If you
lack in one area you excel in another. We can’t be great at everything, but
figure out what your highlights are.
Speak your mind but don’t
overstep your boundaries. This goes a long way in the business realm. Let’s take a typical
marketing scenario for instance. Your boss and you are creating a marketing
strategy targeting young architect students right out of school. Your boss
thinks you should socially post to LinkedIn as it is a professional network. However,
you believe that the best social network for this target market is Facebook and
Twitter, as those are the networks your audience spends most of his or her time
on. What do you do? Simply voice your opinion, explain why, and if your boss
does not see the light after your justification there is nothing you can do but
bite your tongue. Who knows, your boss might change his or her mind later on.
Either way, your insightful voice won’t go unnoticed.
Ask permission, subtly, if
you ask at all. Let your hunger for power guide you and not overrule and destroy
you. If you show your boss why something works better than what he or she is
suggesting, rather than simply stating what needs to be done, it will
illustrate your point more clearly. Better to show the zebra where the watering
hole is rather than tell him which way to go.
Show some control. The second you let your
emotions run wild you have lost. The less you care the more someone else will.
This isn’t to say not to care, but you don’t have to wear your heart on your
sleeve for all to see. Play the game. A predator waits for the right time to
pounce instead of rushing into a losing battle.
Everything you do in life
should be approached from a standoff point. This will allow time to think how
to handle a situation before acting out drastically, resulting in detriment. Like
everything else, these simply tactics take practice, but anyone can accomplish
what they want if handled properly. Make a plan, ponder the execution, and then
when ready, go for the gold! We believe in you!
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